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are you ready to be a boy dad?

are you ready to be a boy dad?

Sep 3, 2024

Sep 3, 2024

Hey,

I noticed that sometimes, during random, casual conversations, I still hear myself say, “Well, my dad taught me this..”

Whether voicing my opinion or giving advice on life and other practical things, I still remember what my dad taught me. Even as a grown adult man and a father myself, I’m proud to say I carried his wisdom and have valued it more throughout the years.

This is one thing I like to impart to my son. I would say I’m being too sentimental, but if one day in the years ahead, he slipped into one of his conversations, “My dad taught me this..” I would say I’m an accomplished dad.

Becoming a father to a baby boy is an incredible journey. As a new dad, you play a crucial role in shaping his future, guiding him as he grows into a confident and compassionate young man.

So, here are some things I’ve learned as a son and as a dad:

  1. Be a Positive Role Model: Boys often look up to their fathers as their first role models. Demonstrate the qualities you want to see in your son—kindness, respect, perseverance, or responsibility. Your actions will speak louder than words and help him understand what it means to be a good man.

  2. Encourage Emotional Expression: Society often pressures boys to be tough and hide their emotions. My dad did a great job of expressing his feelings. He cries when he’s sad or in grief, and I saw him jump high enough when he’s celebrating and happy. This allowed me to express my feelings growing up and knowing there’s a safe space to be myself. Now, I encourage open conversations about emotions with my son and let him know that vulnerability is a strength, not a weakness.

  3. Promote Respect and Equality: Teach your son the importance of respecting others, regardless of gender, race, or background. These are different times we live, and I firmly believe everything starts with your family.

Raising a boy is a journey that requires love, patience, and intention. It’s daunting to think that as a father, you’re his first role model. But I believe you can do it!

If you need more tips and guidance, my latest book covers more about being a boy dad.

Best regards,

Alex

Hey,

I noticed that sometimes, during random, casual conversations, I still hear myself say, “Well, my dad taught me this..”

Whether voicing my opinion or giving advice on life and other practical things, I still remember what my dad taught me. Even as a grown adult man and a father myself, I’m proud to say I carried his wisdom and have valued it more throughout the years.

This is one thing I like to impart to my son. I would say I’m being too sentimental, but if one day in the years ahead, he slipped into one of his conversations, “My dad taught me this..” I would say I’m an accomplished dad.

Becoming a father to a baby boy is an incredible journey. As a new dad, you play a crucial role in shaping his future, guiding him as he grows into a confident and compassionate young man.

So, here are some things I’ve learned as a son and as a dad:

  1. Be a Positive Role Model: Boys often look up to their fathers as their first role models. Demonstrate the qualities you want to see in your son—kindness, respect, perseverance, or responsibility. Your actions will speak louder than words and help him understand what it means to be a good man.

  2. Encourage Emotional Expression: Society often pressures boys to be tough and hide their emotions. My dad did a great job of expressing his feelings. He cries when he’s sad or in grief, and I saw him jump high enough when he’s celebrating and happy. This allowed me to express my feelings growing up and knowing there’s a safe space to be myself. Now, I encourage open conversations about emotions with my son and let him know that vulnerability is a strength, not a weakness.

  3. Promote Respect and Equality: Teach your son the importance of respecting others, regardless of gender, race, or background. These are different times we live, and I firmly believe everything starts with your family.

Raising a boy is a journey that requires love, patience, and intention. It’s daunting to think that as a father, you’re his first role model. But I believe you can do it!

If you need more tips and guidance, my latest book covers more about being a boy dad.

Best regards,

Alex